This article is going to teach you how to write a great (not good) email on e Harmony or any other online dating service.Over the course of any given month, I get about 40-50 emails from people asking me for dating advice.Lately I have been noticing a trend amongst the females in which they are not able to get guys to respond to their emails. She is funny and witty and the exact type of girl that any guy would dream of dating. In the past week and a half, she has emailed about 15 different guys and not one has responded to her request for communication.
I asked her to write an email to one of her matches, but not send it.
She gave me her permission to cut and paste the email into this post: “Hi John ! Work was just out of hand today…Had 3 meetings and the second one caused me to be late for the third one.
Oh well, I shouldn’t complain because for the past 4 years I have been working towards this promotion and I guess it comes with the territory.
After work I had exactly 30 minutes to drop my car off at the dealership before Pilates class began. ” – Sally Ok, so what we have here on the surface is a seemingly innocuous looking email from Sally to a guy named John.
This is extremely impersonal and basically says to John: “Hey, I’m the center of attention here and TMZ and the Paparazzi should be following me around with a t.v.
crew and camera to document the most mundane events in my life.” See you at pm on Fox Channel 11 right after the Simpsons !!
This email is a clear red flag to John that she might be somewhat self absorbed (perhaps a bit shallow) and atrocious at interpersonal communication skills.
The girl at the rental car place was taking her sweet time and the printer was malfunctioning so by the time I got out of there I was already 15 minutes late to class. In it, she describes her hectic day and how nobody/nothing was on time.
That nice…“John” was the brand name of a diary that she picked up at Staples instead of a live human being.